Saturday, April 4, 2009

How biding your time can be your friend

NOPE !!!!!!

I just can`t get into the swing of Easter this year....

The kids still want chockies actually so do I , but I haven`t bought one single piece as yet...

I must get my act together , there isn`t much time left...

For those of you who have been following my blogs over the years you may remember that I don`t have much to do with my siblings other than my youngest sister...(4 siblings all up)

Well I have made the first step in contacting one of my sisters whom I was very close with...

It`s been 3 years where we have not had any sort of relationship but what has hurt the most is it was caused by an OUT LAW....

Unfortunately my sister has been listening to this woman for way too long and in recent events that had taken place the tables had turned...

The Outlaw did something that no family member should ever do without finding out the details...

To cut a long story short my sister and this outlaws daughter are at the same workplace...

Sister was in charge that day and had to reprimand the neice...

Neice didn`t take to it too well so went home and told mummy that she was being harrassed at work by my sister..

The Outlaw decided to take action and went to the work place , spoke to director of company and made a formal complaint....Work place bullying !!!!!!

Now you could understand if this niece was a child but for goodness sake she is 21 years of age....Supposedly an adult..

She didn`t do her job that was asked of her so in my opinion whether she is a relative or not this is your job and this is what you get paid for...

Thankfully because my sister has been there for a good amount of years , they know her extremely well and nothing will come from it...

As for the neice I can`t say the same....Her mother has no work ethics and knows how to rort the system especially workers compensation......

So now my sister has seen what this outlaw`s capabilities are...

It`s dreadful to think that this woman can single handly rip the heart out of one family (or so she thinks)...

They say blood is thicker than water and big sister (which is me) will now be back on the scene....

My light which was turned off by this woman has suddenly been flicked back on again so this is why I made first contact with my sister....

I have briefly spoken with her by phone and come Sunday I will be going to see her...

The past is past so now we can move forward and hopefully repair what damage was done and begin a new future without the interference of an outlaw....

I am a true believer in karma.....I am also a very patient woman....My family have now seen what this woman is all about and the Out law has become her own victim....

8 comments:

  1. That is good news to hear you will be reunited with your sister. It makes me sad to thik sisters can't get on. Hopefully you will have a happy relationship with her for the rest of your lives.

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  2. Mandy, it has been a difficult journey for you. We know that we can choose our friends but not our family. You can now enjoy the benefit of your loving patience. May your reunion be all that you could possibly wish for..

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  3. Sorry Mandy, forgot to mention that I am sending you lots of love also my dear friend xo

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  4. Hey Mandy!
    Great to hear you'll be getting back with your sister..I'm sure you've missed each other terribly and everyone needs some sport of family connection...I hope she can help support you too
    Women...we are our own worst enemies at times! what a cow! LOL

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  5. isn't it funny how fragile our relationships are with our closest relatives? it's awful that you've been estranged for so long. i'm glad that the rift has been healed and wish you the best with it.

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  6. Karma is such a great thing yes I believe in it too. It is great news that you and your sister are talking again.

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  7. What goes around comes around, so the saying goes. I do hope you enjoy and all goes well with your visit.

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  8. Well hopefully you can both put the past behind you and enjoy some sisterly time together from now on.

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